How old do you have to be to become a surrogate mother?

by Samii
(Webb City, Missouri, United States)

i will be 16 soon and im very healthy. i need the money for college, im going to Italy for medical school.

Reply by Rayven

Hi Samii,

You are way too young, legally, to become a surrogate mother.

You need to be at least 21 years old to legally enter into the contract to be able to become a surrogate mother. You also MUST have given birth to at least one child before. There is no exception to these rules.

Also, becoming a surrogate mother “for the money” is not acceptable. While money is a huge factor in most women’s decision to become a surrogate mother (and frankly, it should be) someone who does not go into it for the joy it will bring another family is setting herself up for a very difficult time. The money is not definite, but the emotional rollercoaster is.

Comments for How old do you have to be to become a surrogate mother?

Dec 15, 2011 Thank You! NEW
by: Emilyn from Information on Surrogacy

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Dec 15, 2011 Thank you! NEW
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Jun 15, 2011 For most recent poster
by: Rayven from Information on Surrogacy

No. You cannot be a surrogate at age 17. It is not legal. Period. I was unclear if you meant that you would like to give your baby to your cousin. If that is the case, it is a simple adoption, not a surrogacy.


Jun 15, 2011 can i be a surrogate
by:

im seventeen iv got a baby but have just found out my cousin cant have one can i be her surrogate??


May 25, 2011 Want to be a surrogate
by: Stacey

I am 28 I have 3 kids age 10,7.8 Months and would love to be a good surrogate mum to someone who carnt have a child


May 25, 2011 Want to be a surrogate
by: Stacey

I am 28 I have 3 kids age 10,7.8 Months and would love to be a good surrogate mum to someone who carnt have a child


May 18, 2011 i want to become a surrogate for my cousin
by: Anonymous

i am 18 years old i have a wonderful 1 year old son my cousin unfortunalty cannot have anymore children, she has two daughter 9 and 11 years old, her fiance has no children and would love more than anything to be a father but my cousin cannot give him a child, i want to do this for them i offered to do this. they want a child of their own more than anything, and knowing that i can do this and help i am more than willing. is there any way that i can do this for her?


Jan 26, 2011 I am Italian
by: Roberta

Hello,
my husband and I can not have children…we are Italian from the town of Genoa, so if you can help us we can help you…if u are interested please write to me at : **CONTACT INFORMATION REMOVED**

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Jan 17, 2011 i want to become a surogat mom for my friend
by: madeline

please help my best friend can’t have kids and i want to have a baby for her and i am 16 and she is 17 and i really want to help her become the mom that she wants to be i know that we are yong but she really wants a baby so please help


Dec 18, 2010 Wait
by: Rayven from Information on Surrogacy

If you are under 21, you need to wait to become a surrogate mother. Rest assured, surrogate mothers will still be needed in a few years. Take this time to research surrogacy thoroughly and a few months before you turn 21, start the matching process.


Dec 18, 2010 age to surrogate
by: Anonymous

Is there any way you can be under 21 and become a surrogate mother??


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